Customer discovery — talking to a target user before pitching
You're building / iterating. You want to understand a specific potential customer's reality before pitching them.
Saw your recent post on [specific topic]. [One specific observation that shows you read it]. Quick context: I'm building [product, 1 sentence] for [their type of operator]. Not pitching. Genuinely curious: how do you currently handle [the specific problem]? Even a 1-line answer would help me build something more relevant.
Why this works
Explicit 'not pitching' removes defensiveness. Specific question about their current solution earns substantive answers. The '1-line answer' framing is low-commitment.